== Ground Rules == ==== No personal attacks ==== Focus critiques on ideas not persons ==== Use I statements ==== If you are having a reaction talk about what's happening with you, not about the person that might be triggering it ==== Avoid interrupting others ==== ==== No shouting ==== ==== Step up or step back ==== Adjust your participation ==== Shared goal ==== ==== When in doubt, listen and ask constructive questions ==== ==== support the facilitator ==== Let facilitator do facilitator's job ==== Stay on topic ==== Respect the group and pay attention to what's being discussed.